Feel Better, Defeat Trump!

Some practical tips for putting your election emotions to good work

Many of us are finding ourselves quite apprehensive, even fearful, because of what is happening with the 2020 elections and in American political life. There is value, I want to argue, in taking a moment to analyze those feelings, the role they play in the elections and what we can ...
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Feel Better, Defeat Trump!

A Dose of Forever Feelings

On Sex, Emotion, and Translating What You Feel Into Reality

As a young man, this sense of clunkiness spread to almost everything I did, including my youthful attempts at romantic affairs. I often found myself surrounded by images of love and romance that split emotions from sex without realizing how influential they were to a psyche still very much in formation. On the one ...
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A Dose of Forever Feelings

How to Bring Emotion back into Psychoanalysis

An excerpt from “Minding Emotions”

In memory of Lew Aron, psychoanalyst, scholar, teacher and friend. Mentalization -- the effort to make sense of our own and others' actions, behavior, and internal states -- is something we all do. And it is a capacity that all psychotherapies aim to improve: the better we are at mentalizing, the more ...
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How to Bring Emotion back into Psychoanalysis